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Superfresa
03-10-2005, 03:05 PM
Do you Consider yourself Friendly?<p>Not only to those very close to you but to everyone in general (people in your comunity, people in the internet, people you work/study with even if they're not your friends, and so on)...<p> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/bangin.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/nixweiss.gif" BORDER="0">

Santeno
03-10-2005, 03:42 PM
friendly? What the freaking freak are you freaking talking about? What do you want? who sent you????? You're with the feds aren't you? <p>Anyhow, there is no need to ask. everyone knows New Yorkers are the friendliest people in the world. I mean, where do you think the phrase "How'you doin' " was coined? Haven't you seen our rappers? one day they shoot at each other (they were most likely aiming at someone from jersey) and the next they are hugging on TV. It's one big freaking love fest out here.<p>No go away.

Charger
03-10-2005, 03:53 PM
Im from Minnesota. Has anyone ever heard of Minnesota Nice? Everyone in Minnesota is friendly (well, most of us)

Krypton
03-10-2005, 04:40 PM
Yea, im really friendly. Im nice most of the time unless someone gets really annoying

SV
03-10-2005, 04:57 PM
i try to be, but i usually don't say hi to anyone if i see them walking by in the hall at school (unless they say hi to me of course), so i think i might seem a bit shy/cold/unfriendly to alot of people

anonms
03-10-2005, 05:44 PM
It varies. I try to be friendly to people I don't know.<p>As for people that I do know, it depends on my mood. And I have mood swings. Very extreme moos swings. Practically instantaneous mood swings.

Superfresa
03-10-2005, 05:58 PM
I at least, am a VERY friendly person. I know the mayority of people at my school (1600 people), usually know more than their name and am always willing to help out anyone. Even unknown people. <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/2cool.gif" BORDER="0"> <p>I actually got elected the most friendly member of my school <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/biggrin.gif" BORDER="0"> <p>As for people on the Internet... Dunno, how have I treated U ppl? <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/biggrin.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> Nah really, To the best of my knowledge I'm quite friendly openly in the forums, and very friendly to those who contact me any further <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/bow.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/beigesmilewinkgrin.gif" BORDER="0"> ... (except if I'm close to my depression limits, when I'm just normalish)<p>I actually get a little frustrated when ppl aren't as friendly to me as I am to them <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/1zhelp.gif" BORDER="0"> I'm too much of a looser <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/beigesmilewinkgrin.gif" BORDER="0"> <p>I know that it must be funny to read all this and that you'll probably agree: <B>I AM a looser</B> But what can I do, it's true <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/beigesmilewinkgrin.gif" BORDER="0"> <p>

KebabGud
03-10-2005, 06:51 PM
im nice to nice people .. and pissed off at idiots<br>

Reppu
03-11-2005, 12:03 AM
I think i am quite friendly, but this is a question that one should not be answering because your opinion about yourself is always biased. If i'm friendly or not should be told by the people around.<p>

Hornbag
03-11-2005, 12:15 AM
OK, where do i start...<p>Im selfish <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/1orglaugh.gif" BORDER="0"> <br>Im rude <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://images.zeroforum.com/smile/emsmileo.gif" BORDER="0"> <br>Im mean <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/bangin.gif" BORDER="0"> <br>Im pickey <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/pukeface.gif" BORDER="0"> <br>Im self-absorbed <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.forumsforjustice.org/forums/images/smilies/sponge.gif" BORDER="0"> <br>And yes, im NOT friendly! <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/bonk.gif" BORDER="0"> <p>LOL, im so bloddy mean! When i go to school i just pick on everyone, i knocked Peta Cooper of her crutches 2day cos she was walking to fast...<br>But she is fine...

geary
03-11-2005, 03:42 AM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Hornbag_1</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">OK, where do i start...<p>Im selfish <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/1orglaugh.gif" BORDER="0"> <br>Im rude <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://images.zeroforum.com/smile/emsmileo.gif" BORDER="0"> <br>Im mean <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/bangin.gif" BORDER="0"> <br>Im pickey <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/pukeface.gif" BORDER="0"> <br>Im self-absorbed <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.forumsforjustice.org/forums/images/smilies/sponge.gif" BORDER="0"> <br>And yes, im NOT friendly! <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/bonk.gif" BORDER="0"> <p>LOL, im so bloddy mean! When i go to school i just pick on everyone, i knocked Peta Cooper of her crutches 2day cos she was walking to fast...<br>But she is fine...</TD></TR></TABLE><p>Funny how the chicks dig the d--kheads...<BR><BR>
<i>Modified by geary at 3:46 AM 3/11/2005</i>

Hornbag
03-11-2005, 03:52 AM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>geary</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote"><p>Funny how the chicks dig the dickheads...</TD></TR></TABLE><p>Wats that supposed to mean?

geary
03-11-2005, 04:46 AM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Hornbag_1</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">Wats that supposed to mean?</TD></TR></TABLE><p>Lol - sorry. I know your not a d---head - just you admitted to being one. I also know you're a hit with the ladays. <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/cool.gif" BORDER="0">

Hornbag
03-11-2005, 06:27 AM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>geary</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote"><p>Lol - sorry. I know your not a d---head - just you admitted to being one. I also know you're a hit with the ladays. <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/cool.gif" BORDER="0"> </TD></TR></TABLE><p>I mean who could resist me! LOL<br>But Peta Cooper was askin for it! Stupid girl, hit me with her walking crutches! OH, i made her pay! <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/bangin.gif" BORDER="0">

Tidal
03-11-2005, 02:18 PM
I'm contractually obligated to be nice to people. I work in a hotel <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://images.zeroforum.com/smile/emdgust.gif" BORDER="0"> <p>In real life i'm a bit shy and wary of strangers, people who don't know me usually think i'm cold and snobbish ( which i'm not ), and a jerk ( which i am, kinda... ). But if i like someone i'm fine.<p>

Top Secret
03-11-2005, 07:18 PM
I am a fairly shy person, bit quiet and reserved, but then again, all Asians really are. But once you actually know me a bit, I am a friendly guy and, not to toot my own horn, but everyone else seems to think I am a nice, friendly guy.

whipster
03-12-2005, 09:29 AM
People often tell me that I'm friendly so I guess I am :P

VexedandGlorious
03-12-2005, 09:39 AM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>SV</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">i try to be, but i usually don't say hi to anyone if i see them walking by in the hall at school (unless they say hi to me of course), so i think i might seem a bit shy/cold/unfriendly to alot of people</TD></TR></TABLE><p>thats pretty much how i am.i choke if i see a girl i know, i say hi back when says hi, but i can never say it first.<p>but so people i just dnt like, i really feel stupid around them, so i do the mean thing and ignore them or be mean and strict.

knicks125
03-12-2005, 11:00 AM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Santeno</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">friendly? What the freaking freak are you freaking talking about? What do you want? who sent you????? You're with the feds aren't you? <p>Anyhow, there is no need to ask. everyone knows New Yorkers are the friendliest people in the world. I mean, where do you think the phrase "How'you doin' " was coined? Haven't you seen our rappers? one day they shoot at each other (they were most likely aiming at someone from jersey) and the next they are hugging on TV. It's one big freaking love fest out here.<p>No go away.</TD></TR></TABLE><p>New Yorkers at their best...<p> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/biggrin.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/biggrin.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/biggrin.gif" BORDER="0">

Hornbag
03-13-2005, 04:40 AM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Graffititech</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote"><p>thats pretty much how i am.i choke if i see a girl i know, i say hi back when says hi, but i can never say it first.</TD></TR></TABLE><p>Im completly the opposite! I say hi to all the girls...<p><TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Graffititech</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote"><br>but so people i just dont like, i really feel stupid around them, so i do the mean thing and ignore them or be mean and strict.</TD></TR></TABLE><p>But thats where im the same. My approach is, you cant like everybody. Whenever they are around, and talk to me, im like 'Nill interest' and quote spiderman 'i missed the part where i actually care!' 'u r the weekest link, goodbye!' i LOVE that one! <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/biggrin.gif" BORDER="0">

Top Secret
03-13-2005, 04:47 AM
I'm exactly the opposite. Unlike some people, I do have a conscience, so I do feel guilty when I'm mean to people. So I tend to just stay away from them.

Hornbag
03-13-2005, 05:02 AM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Top Secret</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">I'm exactly the opposite. Unlike some people, I do have a conscience, so I do feel guilty when I'm mean to people. So I tend to just stay away from them.</TD></TR></TABLE><p>I do so have a conscience! <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <p>A guilty one <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/biggrin.gif" BORDER="0"> j/k

Superfresa
03-13-2005, 12:05 PM
I see what U mean top secret.<p>I've always thought that <p>1. Its better to be somebody's friend than just to know him.<br>2. It's better to just know someone than have him as an enemy.<p>This is what I try to practice throughout public relations.

r3vilo
03-13-2005, 12:31 PM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Superfresa</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">I see what U mean top secret.<p>I've always thought that <p>1. Its better to be somebody's friend than just to know him.<br>2. It's better to just know someone than have him as an enemy.<p>This is what I try to practice throughout public relations.</TD></TR></TABLE><p>but with some people it's better to be their enemy than to know them <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/beigesmilewinkgrin.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/beigesmilewinkgrin.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/biggrin.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/biggrin.gif" BORDER="0">

Superfresa
03-13-2005, 01:12 PM
Nah not really. It always turns out better not to attack anyone or have anyone attack you. It's at the very least, more comfortable...

VexedandGlorious
03-13-2005, 07:04 PM
Thats you pimp daddy, me im a nervous person, "Nervous and wasted thankfully" Kenna would say, but i think i gained alittle confindence since in high school, i can talk now, but most girls want to talk to me for answers, Love being a Smart Guy.

SV
03-13-2005, 08:23 PM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Graffititech</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote"><br>but so people i just dnt like, i really feel stupid around them, so i do the mean thing and ignore them or be mean and strict.</TD></TR></TABLE><p>do you mean people that act like you're stupid and worthless and that they should be supreme ruler of the universe? if so, then i agree! there's this one girl on my block who acts all ghetto (she's actually white and really pale) and talks down to everyone; i know she isn't really that arrogant and just acts that way to be "cool", but i still can't stand her alot of the time. there's another girl who thinks i'm <U><I>so</I></U> wierd just because one day i took out a blue lightup pen and pretended it was a lightsaber, so now she loves picking on me and acting like i'm some disgusting piece of garbage that doesn't deserve to exist. she's in my yearbook class, and actually mostly everyone in yearbook thinks i'm somewhat wierd, especially the girls and i'm not entirely sure why (the lightsaber thing was just a two-time occurence). once the girl that thinks i'm really wierd and this other person started picking on me because i was doing my homework (sometimes i poke fun at them for doing their homework in yearbook class) so i just lost it and attacked them (well really just the other person, i don't hit girls or anything <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/bonk.gif" BORDER="0"> ).

whipster
03-14-2005, 01:30 AM
Well, SV, I have something like this too. All (almost all) people in my class think I am weird because my former friend was backbiting me, and told everyone something stupid. Now he's my enemy but I haven't done any revenge. (so far)

VexedandGlorious
03-14-2005, 05:26 PM
wow sv you have a good point, that girl is really a poser.<p>but i meant,ok this happened the other day this totally not attractive girl, which is odd because i somewhat attracted to all of the girls in my math cept her, comes and sits down right in front of me, i understand soap smells good but cot damn, i was to strong, any way the teacher wrote what we had to place n a graph up on the board, she comes from the front of the class to the back to ask where i got the numbers from. she asks the dumbest ?tions on earth when the answers are right in front of her, makes me feel like an damn idiot(which im not, i just found out next year im going to be in GT(highest)english.)<p>her cousin is just the same<br>

Superfresa
03-14-2005, 06:48 PM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Graffititech</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">Thats you pimp daddy, me im a nervous person, "Nervous and wasted thankfully" Kenna would say, but i think i gained alittle confindence since in high school, i can talk now, but most girls want to talk to me for answers, Love being a Smart Guy.</TD></TR></TABLE><p>What's a Pimp Daddy?<p>Anyway, I'm friendly, but I'm also very shy and nervous it isn't really contradictory. And If for one part I'm friendly, for another I haven't had the guts to get a Girlfriend or w/e. Yet. <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/cwm13.gif" BORDER="0"> <p>Whipster, You mentioning your friend (now enemy) reminds me just too muchabout my own stories here <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/1zhelp.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/nixweiss.gif" BORDER="0">

Krypton
03-14-2005, 06:49 PM
pimp daddy-one who has many girlfriends and goes from girl to girl often

SV
03-14-2005, 07:00 PM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Graffititech</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">wow sv you have a good point, that girl is really a poser.<br></TD></TR></TABLE><p>yeah, she is a poser in how she acts ghetto, but i think she might be joking about it (she acts like that at least half the time though so i'm not too sure)

Superfresa
03-14-2005, 07:04 PM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Krypton</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">pimp daddy-one who has many girlfriends and goes from girl to girl often</TD></TR></TABLE><p>Thanks man, that's actually the first time in this forum that I askquestion lie that and it gets answered.... <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://images.zeroforum.com/smile/emthup.gif" BORDER="0"> <p>Anyway, that is SOOOO much simply NOT me....

PRODIGY
12-14-2007, 09:28 PM
... And If for one part I'm friendly, for another I haven't had the guts to get a Girlfriend or w/e. Yet.
Oh 'Fresa, no wonder you didn't have the guts to get a girlfriend... were you wondering back then if you liked blokes?

Anyway, yeah. I used to be a bit weird. Had no girlfriends at school.Since school I've become a bit of a male whore. I would say I used to be too friendly and too trusting, and because of that people tend to think they can walk all over me. In my advancing years, i'm getting more cynical and more of a temper. I tend to be moody at work these days, but then I am dealing with ignorant people who have a go at me because their train is late.

Comrade
12-14-2007, 10:31 PM
As for me... simple answer: No.

Quattro
12-14-2007, 10:47 PM
im frendly, but its depends who to

Naga Royal Guard
12-14-2007, 11:05 PM
not sure what i posted here back in '05 but now : Nope

Superfresa
12-14-2007, 11:56 PM
The author of this thread is an idiot. I always HATE to read my own posts even after a week or so. They always sound pathetic. I dont know how you people cope with me, lol.

Oh 'Fresa, no wonder you didn't have the guts to get a girlfriend... were you wondering back then if you liked blokes?



Yes, but I hadn't gotten the whole story together. I did like someone back then and I felt awkward.

Wow, I posted this when I was 17 I think. I'll be 21 soon...

Excellerator
12-15-2007, 02:26 AM
In general: I love to make people laugh. Laughter is what keeps us in a good mood and it's very comforting to know that, even when the other person has had a long, difficult day, I can help brighten it up. I even have a smily face sticker in my car to remind me to stay happy when I feel down in the dumps.

Personal life: There's this one girl at work who keeps mentioning that her day goes by so much quicker when she's near me or talking to me because I'm always positive and upbeat. I get lots of good comments from customers at work because I generally have a good personality and engage them into a lively conversation when they're cashing out. In fact I got a few "fans" who won't cash out in any other lane when possible.

Online: I don't know if I go overboard or not, but I like to give complements. The CSS members I talk to online deserve every one, though. I'm sure I'm more open when having MSN conversations than if I was talking to them directly, but overall, I'm the same person on the computer as I am in real life.

Bottom Line: I'm not perfect 100%, but even when I'm having a bad day, I don't like to be negative. Life's too short to be angry or irritated.

swizzle
12-15-2007, 01:28 PM
In real life I determine which people I value and extend to them patience and niceness. The next level of people are those that I don't really care about, but with whom I have to interact, so I use fake niceness to get what I need. Then there are profoundly stupid people that get the scorched earth treatment, but stupid people breed so there will be more of them. No need to worry about their extinction.