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r3vilo
02-21-2005, 03:32 AM
Ok... list any ways to get rid of a girl who fancies you but you don't fancy without hurting their feelings. By the way "I've allready got a girlfriend" and such likes are invalid answers....

Reppu
02-21-2005, 04:36 AM
Not hurting her feelings......difficult thing, whatever you do.

Top Secret
02-21-2005, 04:44 AM
You really know what is the best answer? Actually telling them the truth. I know, I know, it all sounds a bit clich'e, but still it does work - and first they might get upset, but in the long run it is a much better answer than lying to the girl. And if she's got any sense to her, she will understand and move on.

whipster
02-21-2005, 05:17 AM
Probably it's a very silly way, but hey, sometimes it works!<br>Just make the girl think that you are aweful. Arrange a date with her, and come:<br>- unshaved<br>- unwashed (not too nice smelling)<br>- wearing blotched clothes<br>etc.

Top Secret
02-21-2005, 05:25 AM
Umm...what's wrong with that? <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/biggrin.gif" BORDER="0"> j/k I personally think that way is so very very cruel; in fact, we should ask Hornbag this question because he is apparently a big hit with the ladies..

r3vilo
02-21-2005, 06:07 AM
Right. firstly thats very cruel and it might be a bit difficult to go unshaven as im 12

Top Secret
02-21-2005, 06:11 AM
I know a guy who's 12 who is growing a little gotee...and going pretty well last time I heard.<p>Anyway, so you're actually facing this dilemma eh Revilo? Just tell her the truth - you won't regret it.

knicks125
02-21-2005, 06:11 AM
Just tell her how you feel, no excuses, no stupid lines<p>and, there is no need to lie about it, it could backfire <p>I can help if needed <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/beigesmilewinkgrin.gif" BORDER="0"> <p><TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Top Secret</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote"> in fact, we should ask Hornbag this question because he is apparently a big hit with the ladies..</TD></TR></TABLE><p> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/biggrin.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/biggrin.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/biggrin.gif" BORDER="0">

CARSRTHEWORLD
02-21-2005, 06:12 AM
but ha, you're a older 12 than me!!! <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/icon11.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/icon11.gif" BORDER="0">

knicks125
02-21-2005, 06:15 AM
you are only 12 and you got a girl chasing you...what seems to be the problem <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/icon11.gif" BORDER="0">

CARSRTHEWORLD
02-21-2005, 06:17 AM
she dumped him

knicks125
02-21-2005, 06:19 AM
so what's the point of this thread, is there another girl chasing him<p>is he a player or a pimp <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/icon11.gif" BORDER="0">

r3vilo
02-21-2005, 06:20 AM
its not that one im trying to get rid of....... the annoying one........ anyway the problem is that she is a real b****- and well-yeah........ i am an accomplished pimp aged 12........how plausible is that. the point of the thread is to get advice to get rid

knicks125
02-21-2005, 06:23 AM
ahh....the annoying one...<p>we've all had an annoying girl once or twice in our lives, maybe more, just tell her to leave you alone if you don't feel the same way she does...it's as simple as that...like I said, I'd be glad to provide some help <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/beigesmilewinkgrin.gif" BORDER="0">

CARSRTHEWORLD
02-21-2005, 06:44 AM
one of the reasons she is rele pissed off with him is that too anoy her, he has asked out her best friend <U>just</U> to anoy her <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/bangin.gif" BORDER="0">

r3vilo
02-21-2005, 06:44 AM
Iv tried telling her she dont turn me on!I told her alright.......and shes mad as hell saying she wants to kill me.........and shes taking it out on cars and iv now asked out another girl to annoy her- t'was her best mate i asked out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<br><BR><BR>
<i>Modified by revilo_ at 1:43 PM 2/22/2005</i>

r3vilo
02-21-2005, 06:46 AM
lol we posted the same thing at the same time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Laguna
02-21-2005, 07:45 AM
If she is an annoying ***** then tell her str8. Tell her to get lost. I have met some *****s in my life. There always very cocky, cheeky and rude. What seems to be the problem?????

r3vilo
02-21-2005, 09:27 AM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Laguna</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">If she is an annoying ***** then tell her str8. Tell her to get lost. I have met some *****s in my life. There always very cocky, cheeky and rude. What seems to be the problem?????</TD></TR></TABLE><br>I allready have told her. She is really upset

knicks125
02-21-2005, 09:48 AM
here is a crazy thought...have you ever given her a chance? maybe you should just say yes and see what happens, if it doesn't work out then you can tell her you did and you'd feel no remorse, and then she has no reasons to stalk you <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/beigesmilewinkgrin.gif" BORDER="0">

Laguna
02-21-2005, 10:56 AM
So serves her right.

r3vilo
02-21-2005, 12:39 PM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>knicks125</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">here is a crazy thought...have you ever given her a chance? maybe you should just say yes and see what happens, if it doesn't work out then you can tell her you did and you'd feel no remorse, and then she has no reasons to stalk you <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/beigesmilewinkgrin.gif" BORDER="0"> </TD></TR></TABLE> ok thats a very bad idea...... shes so mad with me...........

r3vilo
02-22-2005, 06:15 AM
and iv just found out she tried to split me up with me old girlfriend <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/angry.gif" BORDER="0">

knicks125
02-22-2005, 08:00 AM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>revilo_</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">and iv just found out she tried to split me up with me old girlfriend <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/angry.gif" BORDER="0"> </TD></TR></TABLE><p>b/c she wanted you...so go for it...you are hot...use it while it lasts <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/beigesmilewinkgrin.gif" BORDER="0">

Laguna
02-22-2005, 09:35 AM
So your old girlfriend tried splitting up with you??? Im sorry. I used to go to school with the girl I married now. Witch would be my wife.

Santeno
02-22-2005, 09:36 AM
Dude, Just Grow a pair, pull the girl aside (and in the case of our female members pull the guy aside) and just tell them you aren't interested. There is no need to resort too immature and/or hurtful behavior.<p>BTW, If this threads continues turning into a bashing thread for girls it will be deleted.

chaserolls
02-22-2005, 07:47 PM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Santeno</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">Dude, Just Grow a pair, pull the girl aside (and in the case of our female members pull the guy aside) and just tell them you aren't interested. There is no need to resort too immature and/or hurtful behavior.<p>BTW, If this threads continues turning into a bashing thread for girls it will be deleted.</TD></TR></TABLE><p>or tell her "i think i've been leading you on, sorry, but i'm gay"<p>disclaimer: this is not meant to be derrogatory towards anyone, it is a viable option for getting rid of a girl

CPWerks
02-22-2005, 08:37 PM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>chaserolls</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">or tell her "i think i've been leading you on, sorry, but i'm gay"<br>l</TD></TR></TABLE><p>BEST ADVICE EVER, It might seem funny, but it worked with me once, but what sucks is that she likes me even more now, they say that gay man are really cute and know how to take care of theselves <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/nixweiss.gif" BORDER="0"> WTF is up with that <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/werd.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/bowdown.gif" BORDER="0">

Hornbag
02-23-2005, 12:43 AM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Top Secret</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">Umm...what's wrong with that? <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/biggrin.gif" BORDER="0"> j/k I personally think that way is so very very cruel; in fact, we should ask Hornbag this question because he is apparently a big hit with the ladies..</TD></TR></TABLE><p>Yeah man, u called??? <p>Best thing, say it to them that you dont like em. (not nasty, just tell her)<br>Its better to get ur heart broken young when u dont know what 'true' love is. They may cry, but in the end its better cos they will grow up stronger. They may turn into a man hater, but eh! Thats life! LOL

r3vilo
02-23-2005, 02:06 AM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>chaserolls</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">or tell her "i think i've been leading you on, sorry, but i'm gay"<p>disclaimer: this is not meant to be derrogatory towards anyone, it is a viable option for getting rid of a girl</TD></TR></TABLE><p>it doesn't really work cos i had a gf.....but anyways............<p>Thanks to: Hornbag, Reppu, Santeno, CPWerks, <br>chaserolls, knicks125, Laguna, Top Secret and Whipster...... not Carsrtheworld!!!!!!!!!! In this post i have realised that if she hates me that much, she won't want to go out with me, if its going to make me miserable, dont bother and if i dont fancy her shes not goin to hav much fun.........<br>Thanks again.......this time including Cars

knicks125
02-23-2005, 07:16 AM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>CPWerks</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote"><p>BEST ADVICE EVER, It might seem funny, but it worked with me once, but what sucks is that she likes me even more now, they say that gay man are really cute and know how to take care of theselves <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/nixweiss.gif" BORDER="0"> WTF is up with that <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/werd.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/bowdown.gif" BORDER="0"> </TD></TR></TABLE><p>You didn't know that...all girls (at least all girls I know) want a gay guy as their best friend

Dan J.
02-23-2005, 11:28 AM
There is no point in hurting the young ladies feelings. Tell her you would like to be friends and no more. Lying to her and telling her your gay is wrong. Tell her the truth in a tactful, resxpectful way and leave it at that. If a friendship develops thats great if not oh well and leave it alone.

Laguna
02-23-2005, 12:06 PM
Dont say your gay. Rumours will go around the skool. U will be bullied if u say "im gay". believe me.

r3vilo
02-23-2005, 01:53 PM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Laguna</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">Dont say your gay. Rumours will go around the skool. U will be bullied if u say "im gay". believe me.</TD></TR></TABLE><br>I had no intention of saying im gay. Im quite clearly straight <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/icon11.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/1orglaugh.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/1orglaugh.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/1orglaugh.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <br>Now is the time I need your help again, this time in consoling her. As she tried to split me up with my girlfriend, I decided to call her a *****. BIG MISTAKE. I tried to apologize, but now she won't even look me in the face. What do I do now? I'm not sure that I have very many options, but perhaps I could do something to make her feel better, I feel a responicibility to do so. <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/1zhelp.gif" BORDER="0">

chaserolls
02-23-2005, 05:33 PM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>Laguna</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote">Dont say your gay. Rumours will go around the skool. U will be bullied if u say "im gay". believe me.</TD></TR></TABLE><p>unless you're not in school anymore <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://images.zeroforum.com/smile/emwink.gif" BORDER="0"><p>and as for girls wanting gay guys as their best friends, i have heard of this phenomenon, but it's easier to phase away from a friend's standpoint than from a relationship standpoint, gives you a better exit strategy<p>as for being honest, that's the cruelest, most heartless angle in my opinion. girls want an excuse that removes themselves from the situation, if you tell the girl 'sorry, i'm not interested' the only conclusion she could arrive at is 'i'm too fat or not attractive enough,' which could likely lead to eating disorders and depression<p>you aren't lying for your own good (although a clean conscious could be arguably one reason), you're lying to spare her undue anguish. you should pat yourself on the back for being so sensitive <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://images.zeroforum.com/smile/emthup.gif" BORDER="0"> <p><br> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://images.zeroforum.com/smile/emcocktl.gif" BORDER="0">

Hornbag
02-24-2005, 12:07 AM
Not a proplem, revilo_. Good luck dude.

Top Secret
02-24-2005, 01:47 AM
<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD><i>Quote, originally posted by <b>revilo_</b> &raquo;</i></TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote"><br>I had no intention of saying im gay. Im quite clearly straight <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/icon11.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/1orglaugh.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/1orglaugh.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/1orglaugh.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/laugh2.gif" BORDER="0"> <br>Now is the time I need your help again, this time in consoling her. As she tried to split me up with my girlfriend, I decided to call her a *****. BIG MISTAKE. I tried to apologize, but now she won't even look me in the face. What do I do now? I'm not sure that I have very many options, but perhaps I could do something to make her feel better, I feel a responicibility to do so. <IMG NAME="icon" SRC="http://www.germancarfans.com/images/forums/1zhelp.gif" BORDER="0"> </TD></TR></TABLE><p>The new trend in our school is acting gay - touching each other's arses, blowing kisses and the like. A tad weird actually.<p>But if you didn't like her in the first place, and thought she was a *****, why do you think you have the responsiblity of apologising to her?

r3vilo
02-24-2005, 03:43 AM
cos shes crying alll day.....as for acting gay......we all act gay....but were obviously not.....